From what I understand about Aby females, they are very, very territorial. My Aby's breeder has told me time and time again, that the males are much easier dealt with. All that said, when I first got my two, Graemer, the male decided it was ok to pee behind the refrigerator. I didn't know it for the longest time, and one day, after I was looking for a shade that had fallen (?) off the window near the refrigerator, I noticed the liquid. Sure enough, it was cat urine. Sure enough, that is where Graemer had been hanging out. I blocked off the area to him and he just forgot about it. I also yelled at him every time he even went near that area. He got the message. (Fingers crossed here, that it never happens again!)

Try giving little missy female cat some more attention. That's what I have done with Miley, my female, to stop her licking her fur. It seems to have worked. Maybe your little one is trying to get your attention, since you have started being away from the home so much. Give it a try.

Good luck. Those little Abys are a hand full, I know.



P. S. As I type this, my two Abys are in my bedroom trash can, sorting out what they think is worthy of their attention. Such evil little critters those two!