thank you soo much everyone! thank you soo much for all the positive thoughts! some of them i read and made me aww!! i couldn't stop smiling and awwing** thank you for all the hints, i guess i shouldn't second guess what information they're giveing me because they probably do lots every week! thank you all soo much i'm going to call the vet's tomorrow and find out for sure i second guess myself alot, ( thats probably why i second guess stuff sometimes ) but yes thank you all soo much the comments were soo heart warming! thank you