So I met someone.. through a friend.. (Interesting story, too)

[animal_rescue]

All I have to say is AWWWWW!!
That's just too cute, I really hope you guys end up together.

[Daisy and Delilah]

It sounds like he could be a shy one for sure. Nothing wrong with that Keep us posted. I hope it works out great!!!

[CountryWolf07]

Well I hung out with him last night, he paid for dinner.. he had a beer, I think he was nervous around me, which I already knew that. I told him not to be nervous or scared around me, nothing wrong. He mentioned that he was scared to meet me the first time; and he was laughing about it. We both fell down laughing when Mike accidently hit his funny bone on the hip; by my desk, and he fell down on the floor holding his hip and I'm like, are you okay?! And he started laughing, he just did this.. chortle laugh before he starts laughing hard, and I died laughing. Every time he does that, I fall down laughing. We are way too amusing when we're together.

Before he left, we both got up, and we stood there, just talking and we were looking at eachother; and I thought "Should I hug him?" and I'm like okay, I'm going for it, because I never hugged him before, and so I did. Later that evening, we talked on-line; and he told me thanks for the hug, and he was thinking the same thing but mentioned "not exactly" and went on to say that he thought if he should hug me or just leave, and he said that was why he stood there for a bit.

I'm not sure what he really meant by "not exactly".. haha.. he's just adorable.

Ohhhh.. one more thing, he is a HUGE animals person - He has three Labradors, yellow, black, and chocolate, and also a cat that he has at his house here named Timmy.

[CountryWolf07]

Last night, WOW! I went over Mike's house to take care of some math homework and learn how to use the graphing caculator.. we ended up doing that for an hour and a half; then we ended up talking ALL NIGHT until 4am in his room, and we were just laying on the bed, next to eachother, close.. at some point, I asked him if he was ticklish, and he said no, and I said I might be, and he went for my knees, and that tickled a lot and he kept doing that, and I'm like stop it, stop it.. Haha. Time flies by when we talk, we never stop talking or laughing. Tonight I'm going out to play pool and have a beer, and celebrate about his new job offer he got today. It's pretty unbeliveable. I've seen him the past 6 evenings, and just hanging out, and my friends are like, have you kissed already? I said no, not yet. They told me to kiss him tonight for the job offer, and I'm his partner to play pool. It seems too good to be true.

[finn's mom]

You are so cute! I think you and Mike look great together, and, he is very handsome! I hope it works out the way you want it to!

[CountryWolf07]

I think it might just work out; if not, then I have an awesome friend.

Last night, before he dropped off, he said he was gonna be on campus, and he thought he could bring me coffee, and so, he's doing that today just because we stayed up so late last night and he knows how much I love Starbucks. He's very thoughtful, and he is a good guy.

[CountryWolf07]

So..... He made the first move the other night by kissing me. So, we're just so, flirty and we like eachother a lot. He is a shy guy. I asked him if he was nervous to hold my hand, and he said, no and I said, you're allowed to if you want, and he goes "Do you want me to?" and I said "Yes if you want to." He made the first move the other night by kissing me so I mean, we've kissed before, and we cuddle a lot and joke around a lot, and I kissed him before he dropped me off today, like a goodbye kiss and that I'd talk to him later and I never did that.. it was natural, which was new to me. Sooooo... I want to make it offical, we've known eachother for 3 weeks, but all things have happened on its own... no force or anything like that.. which was NEW to me again.. So what should I do?

[CountryWolf07]

I haven't met his mom yet.. but I think I am going to, over spring break... we'll see. I would love to meet his mom.. I've heard so much about her.. and that he already met my parents.. I think it'd be time to meet his.

I think I am going to be spending Spring Break with him.. for an entire week.. and just hang out around the house with him.. and just enjoy it.. no school work.. no stress.. just.. relax and enjoy our time.. and get to know eachother better would be great too... and I think it's a good opportunity. He asked me a couple days ago if I was doing anything for Spring break and that if I wanted to, I can stay with him.. and it was entirely up to me, but I think he was hinting at me.. he has to work quite a bit; but I would have to entertain myself at the house, with my laptop, tv, movies and whatnot while he's at work but I would have the afternoons & evenings with him.. He wouldn't have anyone to hang out with, so, why not be the one to keep him company..

[Daisy and Delilah]

This really sounds great!!! This thing couldn't be going any smoother. I'm thrilled!!

[CountryWolf07]

Went to the Zoo yesterday.. so here's a picture of us before we left..



Things are going good.. but I have to say.. I am not sure if I should be bothered by the fact he doesn't kiss me hello or hug me hello.. it's like we both are standoffish, until the end where we both say goodbye's, and we kiss.. like it's an everyday habit type of thing. I'm not sure if that's a good thing or it could just mean the relationship is already settled in and we're used to eachother.. eventhough it's only been almost 4 months now..

[Daisy and Delilah]

I think I know what you mean. I've heard this from my daughter before. She's the type that's real affectionate and she likes a guy to be the same way(if she really likes him and she feels comfortable). Maybe he's not from an afffectionate family(not used to showing affection)? Or......maybe he's still a little shy? It might be a good time to talk about it-you think? If you feel like you need to get some answers on some things, go ahead and talk to him. I think you guys have been together long enough now to have a little talk. Just my opinion and completely up to you.

That picture is just adorable. Keep us posted. I was ready to bring this thread back up.

[CountryWolf07]

I just think Mike is just very comfortable around me so he doesnt really need to be really really affectionate just to keep me around.. that might be it. The only thing is that we don't hold hands that often; but we will do that.. but usually he'll pull away and let go of my hand, and just walk by me or whatnot.. I just THINK that I'm a hopeless romantic; and I have it in my head that "it's a must" to do those kind of things.. hold hands, etc. ALL the time.. but it really isn't neccessary, I suppose. He is affectionate towards me.. he kissed me on the cheek before he went off to work, today.. which is pretty sweet.. it's more of a "every day" type of habit now.. (like I said, we're very comfortable around eachother).. and I have discovered one thing about him, he is a moody guy. He is crabby but he will lighten up fast once he's around me.

[CountryWolf07]

Ooh ooh ooh! I have a DATE for my friend's wedding in June, and that's Mike! I was filling out my RVSP card; and I told Mike about it and I go "Hey you're going with me, how about that?" and he goes "That's fine with me.." and he goes "put down 1 for guest"..

Things are still going great - - I'm starting to think he could be "it", and I'm still gonna bite my tongue. I just kind of keep having deja-vu's about him or around him.. just keep having good vibes, ya know? He's just.. so sweet. I beat his butt at bowling the other night. That was a lot of fun.