divorce/money questions

[zoey]

Oh i see. I thought SIL meant son in law. apologies.
these abbreviations are sometimes confusing. lol.

[RedHedd]

I hope she has a good family law attorney to help her through the divorce. Depending on what state she's in, I know in California monies "earned" during the marriage are considered community property and are divided equally in the divorce proceeding, or as per agreement, but that's for the attorneys and courts to determine.