Prayers sent .. I almost hate to say it, but with a parole violation on his part, the sentence to him might be more severe..
I am at a loss for worlds, but off all my support and prayers to you! I have been following this closely- and pray for a quick resolution.
The valium incident I am sure was stress related. This has been a really rough time here for sure.. Prayers for that as well.. God Bless you and stay strong. You sure do have alot of strength- and as stated " God never gives you more than you can handle" so you must be very strong sister!