Kiara's reading with Nancy results..PG. 2 UPDATED 12/29

[ramanth]

Can't wait to discover what Nancy finds out. *hugs*

[elizabethann]

Can't wait to read about the reading results.

[Kfamr]

Just got thru with talking to Nancy on the phone.

Here are some of the notes I took.

VERY Dependent of me.
Glued to my leg
Feels safe when with me
Very sweet, sweet, sweet dog
While she feels dependent of me, feels I am over compensating. I need to push her but protect her at the same time.
Treat her like the others instead of babying (That is SO hard not to do considering our past)
Doesn't trust herself
Brother is not genuine, not trusting, annoyed by her
doesn't know what's around the corner

In reply to her running off, she feels as if I left her. She's not blaming me but all she sees is that we were seperated and she was not safe.
Traumatic
there was more than one tramatic happening in her life

She says while off lead is exciting and adventerous, she feels safer on lead because we are connected.
nice male in home - likes dad a lot - very safe - red cheeked man

We're going to talk more later on and she wants me to come up with some more questions.

[Ginger's Mom]

Very interesting, Kay. I guess I can see from a dog's point of view about the Sept. incident (I am scared but my person isn't here to protect me, why isn't she here with me?). And her response to your Dad made me smile.

Are you going to pursue any further what her experiences may have been before she came to live with you? Are you going to ask any questions about what she thinks of Mufasa? Does she feel threatened by his relationship with you in any way? Also, I wasn't sure who you were saying felt you were over-protective (does Nancy feel that way or does Kiara feel that way?). I actually think you do a good job of being protective and pushing at the same time (trips to the beach and dog parks are a perfect example). Would Kiara like to become involved in more organized activities? Agility classes and trials for example (or flyball?). I am sorry, I am really getting carried away. But I find this fascinating. I may have to contact this Nancy to do a reading for me.

[ramanth]

Very insightful Kay. I loved the description of your dad too.

I'm looking forward to my session with Chipper.

[elizabethann]

Wow. What fascinating comments. I found the comment about how she needs to be pushed and protected very interesting. Also, the part about when she ran off. Very interesting. Thanks for sharing.

[gemini9961]

Sounds like Nancy knows her stuff. It would be interesting to do one with Grant since we rescued him. Can Nancy tell you if Ki knows you talked to her (Nancy)? Does Ki know you talked to Nancy about her? I'd be interested to know that answer.

[K9karen]

Nancy is terrific, isn't she? I think she's so insightful. I know how you feel. It's almost impossible not to hug and comfort them when they're scared or upset. They have dog psychologists but it's expensive. But even with her problems, I think Ki is the most adorable little girl. It's impossible NOT to love her.

[Kfamr]

Nancy called again tonight,

I will summerize the notes I took from her and post them in a bit.

[Kfamr]

In reply to what she things about the new dog - (I did not mention him being a male puppy.)
Young and Immature. Learning the dog rules. Doesn't match the other two. Bothersome at times.

In reply to plane rides, Nancy had to describe to her what a plane was and what the cargo-hold looked like - Very dark, scary and loud. She did not like it at all. Bouncy. She said she went on the plane ride before the September incident.

As to where she fits into the pack - Male Shepherd mix is Alpha. She is very submissive to him and female dog. She does not feel below Mufasa nor does she feel above him. She feels as if they are equal. She doesn't care much to challenge other dogs.
She feels as if I favor her. Not that she is bragging or saying I love her more than the others, but that she is my favorite. (In a way this is true - she is everything I've always wanted in a dog, but they all have something as equally special.)


I asked what her favorite activity was. She said she enjoys beach running, as she described it. She loves the beach. She said she loves being active and physical, it's very rewarding to her. Nancy feels she's very agile.

[gemini9961]

This is great Kay. Is there anyway Nancy can get Kiara to know that you aren't going to leave her and that she is safe with you?

[gini]

Kay, Nancy is so good. I had her do a reading just on Emma to find out why she was so scared all of the time and very submissive to Rascal and Annie.

She gave me a great reading and ever since then I have seen a huge improvement in Emma. It is almost as though she knows that I now understand her and she made a leap in self confidence.

I thought all of this stuff was bogus - but the change in Emma really made me rethink my opinion.

She also told me that Rascal, Annie and Emma are so connected that it was hard for her to separate the three. They all started talking to her at once.

You may find that too - having four pups.

[finn's mom]

Does Emma actually meet with the dogs? I'm very interested in this, and, was curious about that. Does she sit with you and Kiara? Or just Kiara? I've read the posts you've left as you've left them, and, I'm sorry if you've answered these questions and I've missed the answers...

[gini]

Does Emma actually meet with the dogs? I'm very interested in this, and, was curious about that. Does she sit with you and Kiara? Or just Kiara? I've read the posts you've left as you've left them, and, I'm sorry if you've answered these questions and I've missed the answers...

Hi, I will answer this for Kay.

Her name is Nancy - Emma is my cat

No, she doesn't meet with you in person, you email her a picture of your pet and your questions. That is why I was so sceptical - but she is really good.

[Kfamr]

I know - I wish I had the money to do my other three. Luckily, for the $30 she charges you are allowed to ask as many questions - even months later - on the same animal.