Unless he is saying those STUPID things in front of his wife, he is being inappropriate. She should trust her feelings. If he is making her feel uncomfortable, she should stay away from him. She's done nothing wrong. But, if she stays quiet he will continue to speak this way to her and even escalate it.
She could do what I did... I friend's husband was coming on to me at a dinner party. She was in the same room as us, but out of hearing. When he made his "offer", I laughed very loud and long until I had several people's attention. Then I said something like, "You'll never guess what Fred just said!" Fred got a panicked look on his face and quickly went over to his wife and never left her side for the rest of the evening. He's avoided me like the plague ever since.
I'll never forget something my grandma told me. She said, Cockroaches like the dark. Turn on the lights and watch them scatter!
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