Molly, I'm not in here to give advice, I just want to tell you I miss you, haven't talked to you in a long while. I didn't know that you had Abby, how about that!
After Perry and Daisy's ordeal, Daisy was showing tendencies of wanting to be alpha, yes, the skinny little black dog, LOL but I have tried to re enforce Perry as the alpha as he wasn't having any of that and would go up to her and butt her, etc. But I went back to letting him in first, giving him his food first and he got first snack, also since Daisy slept with me he is now sleeping with his Daddy and it seems to be working O.K.
Hope it all works out for you MOlly, take care of yourself, I hope you are feeling better now.
Jackie