I guess I should ask this to see what all of you who have had to put kitties on Valium think. Our Leila is a little devil. She's very aggressive with us, and with the other kitties. At times, she's a sweetheart - she'll curl up with my husband most of the time, but sometimes even with me. She purrs and head-bumps us if we stop petting her for a second. However, we can't pet her for too long before she gets tired of it, so we have to know when to cut it off so she doesn't get mad at us and run off or bite us and then run off. She doesn't like for us to pick her up and cuddle her unless she chooses to come to us, and she is always more than willing to bite us. She has been like this for a long time, but it seems like it wasn't as bad when it was just Bailey and her. Once we adopted Leo and Claudia she seemed to get extra aggressive, and she hasn't been very good this week, since we adopted Vincent & Mikey. Do you think that we should take her to the vet (an adventure in itself b/c she is a holy terror there) and see if she needs something to help her relax? Catnip is one of her favorite things, but she doesn't exactly calm down after having it...

Just wondering.