John Hogan

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I chose to put myself in the position of the mother that lost her little boy. I imagine she cared deeply about her little son, and her daughter. Every story has three sides, but, depression or not, I can't get over the image of him jumping with his children.

Much as she loves her children she has insisted that he was a good and loving father....

[mugsy]

Much as she loves her children she has insisted that he was a good and loving father....

Then she's a psycho too...how could he possibly be a good father when he kills one of his kids and almost kills the other one (and who will most likely be traumatized for the rest of her life)? OY! What a moron.

Oh well, I'm off my soap box now....I truly do wonder about a lot people any more!

[lady_zana]

Then she's a psycho too...how could he possibly be a good father when he kills one of his kids and almost kills the other one (and who will most likely be traumatized for the rest of her life)? OY! What a moron.

Oh well, I'm off my soap box now....I truly do wonder about a lot people any more!

I'm sorry and I don't want to start a fight but I have to say something: Neither the mother or the father in this case is a "psycho". He is a sick man who suffered from severe depression. When he was well, he was perhaps a wonderful father and a wonderful man.

The mind of a person with mental illness is not a rational mind. I have had clinical depression my entire life. I'm very lucky that mine is no where near the level his was and that mine is able to be kept in control by medicine. However, not understanding mental illness and labeling those with it as "pyscho" is one of the great causes of shame for the person with it and leads them not to seek help until it is much too late.

I could stand up here on my soapbox all day but I won't. I'm not defending him; what he was terrible. What I'm trying to say is you cannot put rational action on an irrational mind. If you don't understand mental illnessess, or suffer from one yourself, it is hard to understand how a person could do such a thing. Instead of condeming his action, people need to first try to understand and educate themselves about depression and other mental illnesses.

[mugsy]

As a victim of depression myself, when I say psycho, I mean that she wasn't making sense to me by defending the man that killed her child and saying he was a great father. I have a problem with that. I don't want to fight either and I understand that not everyone is going to share my opinion and that's fine with me...everyone is entitled to their opinion and I will respect it as long as they respect mine.

Hope that helps as a way of an explanation.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I mean that she wasn't making sense to me by defending the man that killed her child and saying he was a great father

I don't think that she was defending what he has done - maybe she didn't wanted him to be vilified as an evil man when he was clearly very unwell, who knows........................