Gayle...it hurts like hell now. But that idiot has done you the biggest favour in the world.

Not to even judge him as a person - that is not cool.

But look at his ACTIONS - what he has done, and NOT done.

It doesn't feel like it now - but you are free.

Like the greeting card says, when he crawls back saying how stupid he has been - AGREE with him!

Then slam the door in his face.

And take care of that heart of yours. It is a big and loving one, and deserves the best in YOUR life.

You have my phone #. Latte's on me!

HUGS!