Advice needed.

[Dorothy39]

Perhaps this friend looks "up" to you and needs to learn how to grow up, but, is having a hard time with the rigors/demands of adulthood.(putting something or someone before yourself)

She/he , admires your traits, yet, has self doubt as to HOW TO TAKE THAT FIRST STEP!!! Without the aid of a parent.

Take these cues, of inconfidence on your friends part.Always, Present yourself as a wonderful example for this person to follow.

Perhaps you can confront her/him as to why this "fictional" story seemed important, without assigning a character flaw.


Keep your chin up---

[Pembroke_Corgi]

Like the others said, I would talk to her. Sometimes people are insecure and they feel the need to make themselves feel cool by lying about things. I have a friend who I'm very close to, and to most people she seems very confident, but sometimes she will say extreme things or change herself for her boyfriends because I think deep down she has almost no self-confidence.

If you talk to your friend and she is sorry about lying to you, I would forgive her. Sometimes people do dumb things. If it was me I would forgive her as long as she didn't do it with an intent to really hurt me.