Thanks everyone. I really, really appreciate the replies. It's hard for my to get to Alateen meetings because I need to get a ride a fair way into a larger city but I have a friend who is willing to drive me. There really isn't an update yet, my grandma did talk to the doctor but we are still deciding on how we could confront her about it and make her realize that we care and also make her stop denying it. Any ideas?

I pm'd you k9karen.