Quote Originally Posted by Catty1
...and he can still call AA and go to that. A dr and having a medical checkup is good too.

Shawn's father is not the problem here - Shawn is an adult, and is making some important changes. But blaming someone else takes away a person's responsibility for what they do. Do you get what I mean?

Maybe it IS his dad's fault he is where he is now - but if Shawn stays stuck there, that is SHAWN'S fault.

He's focussing on himself right now.

Jess, give Al-Anon a call and talk to someone about this too.

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Catty1
Great post. Couldn't agree more.