I've come here a few times and started to post, then deleted it. Somehow I just can't find the right words of encouragement.

I've never been married but I have been in a long-term relationship that ended after 13 years. I was not blindsided, I knew it was coming and the parting in 1987 was amicable. I've never been in love since.

All I can do is offer up my prayers. I think of you often when I read the poem "Sometimes" posted on my wall at work.

Take care of you.