Quote Originally Posted by Denyce
What I believe we both have is a mature, deep love. He is my comfort, my safe haven, my shoulder to rest my head upon at the end of the day. That is what long term love is about.
That is exactly what I have lost. On my 5th anniversary I still felt that way too.. secure in our love. I guess the lesson learned is no matter how strong you think your love is, never ever take it for granted. Enjoy every day now and never just assume it will be the same tomorrow.

Thank you Dan for your post as well. Never more truer words have been spoken. I only wish someone he trusted and felt close to would tell him the same.. make him realize we could still be happy with some effort and patience on both our parts through this down time.