Congrats to both Edwina and Kuhio. I wouldn't worry too much anout the dog house though. If hubby is anything like most hubbies - he's not really all that hurt. Oh he'll act like he is and give you the business - cause he knows that you would def be doing if the other way around, but most guys remember because of you (you gals). THEY (GUYS) try to avoid the doghouse at all costs!!!