I must give up my cats.

[shais_mom]

Neither of you are showing any compassion towards a PILLAR of our PT group........and THAT breaks my heart. Sometimes people really are placed between a proverbial "rock and a hard place". Not every person has the luxury of of time and money to do the "right" thing. And who would know better what the "right" thing is than Nancy herself??? Circumstances are not always ideal. And even though you both (and others who feel this way) are most certainly allowed to have and voice your opinions, I just don't feel it is very fair of you to judge and criticize a person who is in no doubt facing one of the hardest times of a person's life.

(Sorry, Nancy, I do not mean to speak for you)

Once again Jen I totally agree with you - this is shooting a person while they are down. I am very disappointed to say the least.

[Edwina's Secretary]

Nancy....my thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. I know whatever you decide...it will be the best thing for all concerned.

[G535]

I really hope things work out well for you and the cats. I would be faced with a similar decision if my health failed as my Finnigan is a one person cat, almost thirteen years old and has never been anywhere without me. I had to go into the vet's every day to feed him a few years ago when he had to stay there for a week as he refused to eat or drink without me being there.

We both have fingers and claws crossed for you.

[Barbara]

I hope so much you can take Felicia with you. My mom is at a place where she is allowed to have her dog and she is soooo much happier there with Amber. They had a very very old kitty there who had to be PTS some weeks ago- she was 22 and really frail and in the last stages of kidney failure.
This kitty was so happy because. Most of the time she was sitting in the entrance hall just sleeping and watching.

[orangemm]

What a wonderful group to offer ideas and support for Nancy and Felicia. I kept thinking about the situation you are in and I know I would be devastated, too, if there was any inkling that I might have to give my boys up.

Let's hope something can be worked out. I'll keep good thoughts and certainly a prayer or two can't hurt.

[Randi]

Considering Felicia's age, I really hope you'll be able to take her with you, not only for her sake, but for your peace of mind. Say what ever it takes!

(((((hugs)))))

[Ally Cat's Mommy]

Nancy, I will be praying for you, and hoping that you find a way to take Felicia with you.

I cannot even begin to imagine how you must be feeling at the moment, but I hope that you will continue to come to PT for words of encouragement and love.

I am sure I speak for many of us here when I say that if there is ANYTHING I can do to help, you only have to ask!


(((HUGS)))