tired

[barncat]

thanks.

[Cataholic]

Barncat, here is the right place to vent, to find support, to find other's opinions. As Gini said, it is YOUR turn. No matter the relationship- whether it is people, work, family, friends, children- you have to pay yourself first. You have to. You can't search for something in others that you don't first have in yourself. Easy to say, yes, but, I have been there. All the love in the world cannot cure someone else's 'ills'.

Take a few days to roll in your own muck, but, it is then time to begin finding what YOU need, and working towards it.

Good luck.

[joycenalex]

barncat how are you today? i hope things are better for you.

[barncat]

Thank you al for the support. I am feeling more balanced again. Sometimes it just gets a bit much....

being heard helps. thanks.

[sirrahved]

I'll be praying for you! So sorry you're feeling at your wit's end.

[Oggyflute]

Having a partner is a partnership in all things mate. She should be aware of your needs as you are of hers. Hope things get better for you.