Question for the Women here...

[lv4dogs]

I do not use it (no man in my life right now... kind of good kind of bad) anyways but a lot of my friends/relatives etc.. have used it/do use it. Some have been on it for years with no ill affects, others had minor problems, some had major complications including surgery. I'd say it's about half & half from my experiece from others. Everyones body is different.

[Logan]

My doctor told me I had to come off the pill at around 41, I think. I had just remarried at 40, but I ended up with high blood pressure (surely my marriage had nothing to do with that ) and he said we needed to find another option. He did not ever suggest the Depo Provera as an option for me. Tubal ligation was my option and thankfully my husband stepped forward and took care of the matter so I didn't have to do that (bless his heart).

I think if you're not planning to have anymore children then a more permanent solution might be best for you.

Logan

[LeahMM]

I was 35 when I had to go off of the pill but that's because I'm a smoker. I've been on the depo injection ever since. The only side effect that I have is major dryness, um, yeah there.

[Vela]

Lots of people do just fine with it, like others have said everyone is different, however if there is something else you can try then I'd go a different direction. It could be just fine and cause you no problems, but you wouldn't know about the problems until it was happening and then it might be too late and surgery might be the only option. I would just try using something that doesn't come with as many possible problems attached to it. I see a broad range of women on it, based on what I do for work, and the precentages of women who have issues is higher than many other forms of BC. You might be one of those people with no problems, but I would try other alternatives first if you can because the percentages of issues is really pretty high with it, from my experience.

[emily_the_spoiled]

There are other forms of BC that can be used besides just the pill or DepoProvera. As caseysmom mentioned there is an IUD. You can also try a diaphragm, a vaginal ring, or even an implant. These are all reversable forms of BC that will stop being effective when they are removed (unlike the DepoProvera). Not all MD's are okay, with the implants so you might have to find someone else. But before going with the DepoProvera do your research and ask for a second opinion.

[CathyBogart]

Just keep in mind that after age 35-ish, being on any hormone birth control increases your risk of blood clots, therefore increases your risk of stroke and other nasties. Also, if you DO react badly to the depo in any way, you can't just take it out, you're stuck with it until it leaves your system!

I have the copper IUD, and I couldn't be happier with it. I had an abnormal amount of cramping for about six months after I got it in, but after that no problems!