All of the advice given is right on! I have several ex-ferals, some still are.

Oscar is a twin to my Shai. She's been with me for 3 years and is finally jumping on my bed, letting me pet her and has learned to ignore the dogs. I got her when she was about 9 months old and I did it all wrong. If I had followed the advice given, she would be much tamer. On the other hand, she's so fiesty, it might not have mattered.

That kitty is adorable. Can't wait to see more pics.