IF you have to question it, then just be friends. I've always gone on this philosophy in life: If my head screams YES or NO, then my answer is yes or no (according to which my head screams ) If I'm hesitant in any way, then that is a NO as well since there's something holding me back from it being a YES. Soooo.... if your head is screaming MAYBE, then make it a no, because something inside you knows it should be a NO. Did that make any sense?