Okay, so we talked.

I'll just paste the convo cuz it's SO much easier that way, lol.

Me: i have a question, kay?
Him: k
Him: ..?
Me: where exactly do we stand? ugh, i don't know, but like when we're online we sit and talk about when to kiss and stuff and then at work and stuff its just like we're good friends, i don't really know where im going with this
Him: idk ether i mean i want to but its hard to do anything at work
Me: its hard at work
Him: i am srry i dont mean to do anything mean to ya
Him: i want to go farther but it is hard when im nervous
Me: lol im nervous too
Me: im just making sure we have something before i get to hopeful
Him: i think we do i just want to give it time
Me: good, i do too, i just wasnt sure lol
Him: ya
Him: idk i really want to kiss and stuff i dont know even tho were frienbds i dont see a prob with it i could almost help thinks idk i am gonna shut up
Him: nvm....
Me: no im thinking of what im trying to say
Him: ok
Me: i dont mind kissing and hugging and hand holding or what not, i just dont want it to be a friends with benefits type thing, ya know?
Him: yeah, i agree
Me: im really glad we got this stuff figured out lol i was really nervous that you hated me or something
Him: no never
Me: and then u kept talking about the hot chick in the video and i was like ahhh he does hate me
Him: no
Him: sorry
Me: but its okay now lol
Him: lol
Him: ok
Me: i was lost for a little while
Him: well i am sorry

All in all, I'm still nervous about it ending up to be a friends-with-benefits situation. I'll just have to see what happens.