Most dogs are VERY sensitive to the atmosphere around them.
If you are upset a lot of the time, she will pick up on it & feel more
insecure & unhappy.Plus, you all just moved to a new house & that
alone can upset the dog's routine. Do more of what your husband does
with her. Lots of praise & treats when she goes potty outside. Good luck
in settling her (and you) into the new house.