Positive thoughts and big, bracing hugs being sent your way.

Now I know you may disregard this entirely, but I have to try.

Don't worry! It cannot help anything, or determine whether or not they keep him! And you are both good people, and have a nice family, and people who love you. Everything after that is far less important. And worrying never helps anyway!

P.S. Paul claims I do not know the meaning of the word worry. Can you guess which one of us is the worrier of the two?