I sure am glad you guys understood what I was trying to say. Felt a little silly writing it, but I don't talk about them very much, except Butter, and I truly am blessed with very gentle animals. And I am even seeing a more gentle side to Butter lately. He's not there 100% yet, but he's coming around.

Thanks for understanding. I'll definitely let you know about Ingram all over again! The reason I can let him come and go (and it isn't easy) is that he is in a foster home where he is loved a lot, and I'm just "babysitting". Sort of like having my own mini kennel!!