Of course there are things I regret...but I also know that I regret those things only because I've become wiser through experence. It's easy to say "Well I would have done..." now because I've lived through the experence whereas at the time when I made the regretable dicision, I didn't have the experence or the knowledge to make the "right" decision.

I do know and believe in my heart that everything happens for a reason and everything good and bad is part of Gods master plan. Harboring and dwelling on regret to me seems like a waste of energy. I always try (although sometimes I fail, but I am only human) to learn from things and move on, hopefully learning well enough not to make the same mistakes again.

Every event in my life has shaped who I am. I can only love me as me, as God loves me as me.