I feel so lucky to have a man that would never lift a finger to me, even though I've slapped him a couple of times. He tells me he would never hit me and "I say that's good, cause if you do, as soon as I get up off the floor I'm coming after you".

Being raised with two older brothers I had to take a lot of sibling poundings to keep up with the big boys, so it's just instinct for me to go into a fist throwing rage if I'm hurt. I may be little, but I can pack a powerful punch with my boney knuckles.
Thank God for older brothers.

My advise for abused women....hit back, fight dirty.