Weighing on my mind

[Pawsitive Thinking]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by catnapper
[B]United front... HA! It won't happen unless I shut up and ignore everyting and just let her make her own mistakes. I suppose I should, but I can't help but stop her from making harmful choices!

I did this with my step-daughter - she made some horrendous mistakes (I refused to collect her from the police station on one occasion and insisted they rang her Dad) but she now comes to me first with any problems she may have........for your own sanity, back away and make her face the consquences of her own actions. Having said that I now have 2 step-grandchildren so I guess she has learned the very hard way