wolfsoul I know for a fact that Kim would never make fun of anyone's RB pets as she has lost a couple that were just as dear to her heart as your lovely Sara.
I realise she wasn't trying to make fun, it just hurt my feelings.

I don't understand this at all. I guess I can't judge how Kim reacted to KBlaix because I haven't seen their past feuds. I just feel like I was singled out because I also post on the dog side. I thought that I was posting enough here that people would also recognise me as a cat person and not just someone from the "dogpack." I thought people here recognised Caleb...I don't post here often because things like this. Because people differentiate between "cat people" and "dog people" when we are really all just pet people. Kim says she is leaving...even so, I'm afraid that this singling out of groups will continue so maybe I'll just stick to my dog and rats and fish, and I'll stop posting pictures of Caleb for a while. But like I said, I don't understand what's going on here and what the fuss is about. I don't think this is just about a difference of opinion on the colour/breed of a cat...That was what my first post was about...And I was the only other dog person to post my opinion on the colour, therefore it's hard for me not to take it personally when the dogside is singled out right after I post. I don't see what I did wrong. Sorry to drag it on...I am just confused.