Laura, I had lunch with Cheryl (EmilyTheSpoiled) yesterday and we were wondering if we could lend an "onsite" hand? We are both in the DC metro area which is only a few hr drive to Norfolk. Maybe next weekend we could come lend a few shoulders? I realize everything is totally overwhelming for you right now so just know that you have friends and hugs that aren't too far away. Try to get some sleep and peace.