Slick and Val, I too suffer from low self esteem, so I know what you are saying and where you are coming from, I was only trying to cheer Jesse up, she seems to feel so bad about herself, it is worrying to hear someone say that about themselves, I was always told it is better to think positive than negative, so I guess my comments re-the mirror were just trying to re-inforce that.

I have trouble practicing what I preach, believe me.