I'd ask Snowy what the h*** he's talking about all the time.

I'd ask Mr. Jones about where he came from before we got him.

I'd ask Bella if she knew how much I love her, and how she feels about us and the other cats.

Now,

I'd ask poor Malfi how he feels, healthwise. Does he know he's in his forever home and I'm his mama now.
I'd tell him all those things I had to do to him were to help him, not hurt him. We just wanted him to get better and have no pain.

I WOULD TELL THEM ALL HOW MUCH I LOVE THEM!