I agree with Dixieland Dancer.

Please try not to be too mad at him. I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt your feelings. Sometimes people just say the wrong thing and don't realize that it hurts others. I'm sure he is just upset about what has happened it was just a grumbling remark

I hope you are doing well and coping the best that you can. Such a difficult time.

Big hugs for you.....Robin