You are definitely NOT a bad mom, Kim!

I haven't even thought of "nerves" being Butter's problem, and as feisty and bold as he is, I doubt that is his particular problem. He is as confident in himself as any pet I have ever owned, and I definitely have the scars to prove it!!!

Our vet has blamed his issues on allergies, which may be exaggerated because he does go outdoors daily, which I am assuming your Tucker does not. Indoor only cats face different issues, I'm sure, and I don't know a thing about combating those! All I know is that the shots he has received, periodically, have helped him tremendously. I will check with my vet and see exactly what he is getting. Maybe it will help Tucker too.

Logan