She was on chat last night, but I didn’t speak with her much and it was late so I got off shortly after. I know that sometimes sympathy, though well meaning, can be overwhelming and bring up all your feelings of loss again. I may be totally off the mark on that, but that’s at least how I feel. Of course, I’m the type to stuff those feelings as deep down as I can and wait for them to go away. Then at some point, I pull them back out and deal. Sometimes a wound is too fresh.