Thank you all for your nice replies. I am now in my homevillage with Sally and she seemed so happy to see me, cuddles, plays and follows me everywhere around. She is usually very clean but today my mom and I were away the whole day and after my mom came back Sally pooed in front of her eyes just next to her litterbox...??I don t think thats medical reason...but I tell my mom to let the litterbox where it is...also is my mom not the cuddling type..she has the cat because it keeps the house free from mice thats it...well I wish you all a nice evening