As far as maintaining perspective, my supervisors wonder at times how I manage to contorl my temper as well as I do. (Yes, Karen, this is the same person you grew up with )

It's simple. I have my morning attitude check.

goes something like this:

Is it -30? nope

is it over 100? nope

Did I wake up in a bed? (As opposed to other more spartan options) Yup

Am I wearing a funny colored suit? (Battle dress) Nope

Anyone shooting at me? Nope

Then it's a good day, and there's really nothing important enough to screw it up long term.