catty...I have 2 teenagers (one of them well thats another story) so I make dinner most nights and we eat as a family, she never offers to help or clean up after NEVER.

I think she needs to be assesed, I have asked her uncle to try to convince her of that.

The military has been broached to her with no response but I think the military would be fantastic for her. (and me she would move out!)