All in all, I realize and understand that some folks have constraints, time or otherwise. I am referring to folks who DO have the time, and DO frequently post anyways.

I understand people wanting to reply to friends mostly because that's who/what they identify with. That's a refreshing perspective and somewhat of a reassurance!

I am not out to hurt any feelings. Sometimes we need to be reassured of things and when nobody comes to you when you need it then it's just kind of adds a little to the hurt, you know? I just want to make friends with folks but am pretty inept at doing things like that, obviously, heh. I am cool, I promise!