Why can't you call it when Shawn is around?

Hopefully someone at AA tonight will tell you about some local Al-Anon meetings.

There are some AA people who go to Al-Anon also. After all, they married an alcoholic! lol

Just don't get so lost in Shawn's solution that you lose sight of yourself. You are doing fine so far. Just remember you too!

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Catty1