The only problem with deleting is it HAS to upoad to my computer before the email ever shows up... (Outlook ) I DID delete and do delete a lot of them she sends and have told her so.

You have helped me though, decide what I am going to tell her. I am going to tell her she tied me up with that uploading of stuff I have ALREADY seen, that I just had to get off the computer for the night. If she can't link me to a place to view it, don't send it because it ties me up to long... that I already have so much on my computer that I can't do nothing until the uploading is done and remind her I only have DSL LITE, yet again!

I am now wondering if she isn't fairly new to the computing world that she is sending stuff that has been going around forever... old stuff that I have seen but she hasn't.. I never thought of that until I read some of your responses. I bet she is pretty new!