Jo, you're so right in that not all parents are like that. I have some friends who have children who are a delight to be around - even when out in public. They are always polite to adults, even seconds after they were being "kids" and getting ready for a scolding.

However, I do believe you and my friends are in the minority these days - which is too sad - especially since everyone is so willing to crow about "family values" and such.