Wow, Donna, I'm sorry that they treated you so disrespectfully. There's nothing worse than feeling disposable, I know that from very recent experience myself. And, I'm sure your brother means well, but, I would probably feel the way that you do in regards to talking to him. I don't tolerate anyone yelling at me, it shows complete lack of self control and I don't like being around that. So, I can see how that would be a drag to have to listen to. And, comparing your situation to the folks affected by Katrina is inappropriate...if he wants to get technical, there have been less fortunate people all over the world for a long time, and, it has and will continue to have nothing to do with natural disaster, in many cases. There are always going to be less and more fortunate people than ourselves, that's irrelevant. Again, though, I'm sure he means well. I truly wish you the best of luck, Donna, in finding a different job. And, staying sober, I know that has to be difficult to deal with in times like these. I can't imagine. I hope you have someone to talk to, whether it be a friend from Pet Talk or not. I'll be sending good thoughts...Kari

And, as a little ray of hope, my mother had to recently look for work past the age of fifty, and, she found a job. She actually was able to choose from a few positions, so, there's opportunity out there...don't lose hope.