Well, I'm guessing it's play with Kahlua because she seems pretty at ease. She'll eat, roll around at my feet, and stretch out and watch Mowgli (who thankfully hasn't done any spraying).

I've always thought of Mowgli as the more aggressive between him and Zelda, though that could just be kittenish rambunctiousness. They're probably actually about on equal footing there. Mowgli wants to be in charge where Zelda is concerned - as evidenced by the times he's chased her into the bathroom and tried to mount whilst I was in the middle of a bath. (Nice, hot, relaxing Saturday soaking? Who needs it?) Zelda makes a lot of noise when Mowgli tries to take charge of her, but when she's had enough, she has no problem with turning around and smacking him.

But, while Mowgli wants to be in charge with Zelda, he's a little chicken with anything else. Though I do feel if Kahlua would stop with the chasing, he'd settle down and warm up to her.