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rg_girlca
10-16-2005, 02:22 PM
September 1991-October 2005
A tribute to my Katie girl.

It's been a week now since I had to make the painful decision to let my Katie, Katie Pretty Lady go in Peace.

In October of 1991 we decided to get another cat as a companion for our C-Fer who was missing the loss of his friend Mittens. We found a rescue orgainization that a woman ran out of her home.

I was sitting in the kitchen talking to the woman while hubby and the boys went with another woman to find a new kitty. While sitting there, this tabby jumped up on the table and layed right down in front of me. The woman said, "Lorraine, I would like you to meet Katie." I said, "Hi Katie, my you are such a pretty lady. Hence the nickname, Katie, Katie Pretty Lady." She was 11 months old at the time and had just been spayed one week before.
The boys came back raving about this black cat named Pete and how they wanted him. I tried to stir them toward Katie, but they wouldn't budge. After about 3 weeks of Pete being here, it was clear that it was not going to work out with our C-Fer. Pete wanted nothing to do with C-Fer and he showed it. Poor C-Fer was terrified of him. I called the woman and told her that it was not working out and she asked if I would like Katie instead. Well, I couldn't answer "YES" fast enough.
Katie & C-Fer hit it off from day one, but what really got me, was the first night that Katie was here. We were all in the living room watching T.V. and Katie came on me first, then went to each of the boys and then to hubby. She landed up staying on my hubby's chest. I guess it was like the story of the Three Bears, trying to find out who was just right. :)
Since I didn't work at the time, over the years, Katie became my velcro girl. She slept in the crook of my arm every night. If I happened to turn over she would climb over me to get back into her favorite position. She accepted each cat that became a part of our family with ease.
Since I can recall, Katie hated when everyone was in bed and the lights went out. She would sit in the middle of the hall and cry her little heart out. I would call her, "Katie, come baby girl," and all I could hear was the thumping of her feet on the floor and the little brrrup brrrups, that she came out with. Once she was in bed with me and in her favorite postition, all was well again.
Katie was a very vocal girl, letting you know when she was hungry, wanted to be played with or just wanted some lovies. She really let her siblings know when to leave her alone. She was the "QUEEN" of the house and she let the boys know it.
I was not prepared at all for what happened to my Katie. She went in, what should have been a routine teeth cleaning with 2 extractions and unfortunately had a small stroke from being under the anesthetic. The vet said that this is very uncommon and rare that this happens. At one point there was a slight improvement in her, but then a few days later, she had another small stroke, which left her more paralyzed. They also had to start force feeding her, her vision was affected and she had become incontinent. I could not let my Katie go through months like that in hopes that she could recover. I would only be fooling myself and it wasn't fair to her. She was so scared not knowing what was happening to her and her eyes had that vacant look to them. It was time to let her go.
As I held her in my arms, I told her how much I loved her, what a good girl she was and that she was and always will be my Katie, Katie Pretty Lady.
My Dear Katie, how I miss you so. How I miss your headbumpies, your little brrup brrups, your little love bites on my chin and most of all, your purrs as you layed in my arms at night. I love you and I will never forget you my velcro girl. You were and always will be my heart Kitty. Love your Meowmie.
Rest in Peace Katie. Til we meet again baby girl.
This is a beautiful memorial that Laura made for me.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v241/tiger04/KatieMemorial.jpg

CalliesMom
10-16-2005, 03:08 PM
:( What a wonderful tribute. Katie was a very special kitty that seemed to bring joy to everyone who knew her. Thank you for allowing us to share your pain.

RIP Katie.

trayi52
10-16-2005, 03:18 PM
What a special cat Katie was! And what a wonderfrul tribute you have given her. Thanks for sharing this with us.

Willie

Barbara
10-16-2005, 03:30 PM
Having been away I did not hear up to now that your Katie went to RB.
I am so very sorry- at 14 years you just don't think it could be time. :(

catnapper
10-16-2005, 04:00 PM
Lorraine, I am so sorry -- I was going to email you today and ask you how you were doing since I haven't seen you online. That was a beautiful tribute for a wonderful, special girl. I know she's sill here with you, and don't be surprised if you still hear those brrrps-brrrrps at night.

Nomilynn
10-16-2005, 04:27 PM
I'm so sorry for this loss.. I get sick to my stomach when I think about the pain you must feel. You are in my thoughts. I'll ask Bassett to give Katie a tour for you.

*hugs*

Felix
10-16-2005, 05:16 PM
:( Im so sorry for your loss.That is a beautiful tribute to Katie,thanks for sharing it with us.I will light a candle in memory of Katie.

Hugs from Felix and his Meowmie,God Bless.

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b103/Felixsookie/memory.gifhttp://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b103/Felixsookie/a_smallcandle.gif http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b103/Felixsookie/smallangel.gif

orangemm
10-16-2005, 05:24 PM
How beautiful for Katie and for you. I know you loved her very much and nothing will take her place.

No matter how they go to the RB, I still cry for all of them.

QueenScoopalot
10-16-2005, 06:50 PM
Lorraine..here comes the LES again. :( What a touching and heartfelt tribute to your beautiful little girl. She'll forever have a special place in your heart until you meet again. :)

Edwina's Secretary
10-16-2005, 07:18 PM
Oh Lorraine....how my heart cries for you. What a beautiful, loving tribune to a beautiful loving kitty.

Flatcoatluver
10-16-2005, 08:41 PM
I am so sorry for you loss! Rip sweet katie, that siggy is a beutiful tribute to your sweet cat.

krazyaboutkatz
10-16-2005, 08:55 PM
Lorraine, this is such a wonderful tribute to Katie. I'm sure that she knows how much she was loved and she'll also know that she'll be missed but never forgotten. RIP sweet Katie girl. :(

Ally Cat's Mommy
10-17-2005, 03:23 AM
Lorraine, I am typing through the tears. I can imagine how difficult it must be for you - still expecting to hear or see Katie in the house. You two shared such a special bond - she will ALWAYS be with you, and watching over you.

I am sure Katie and Kissy are looking down from the RB right now, watching over us all :(

jenluckenbach
10-17-2005, 05:43 AM
Oh Lorraine, the tears are flowing so badly that I can't type. My heart breaks for you. :(



{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}

Medusa
10-17-2005, 08:27 AM
Blessings to you for making the right but painful decision about Katie. Sometimes the way we must demonstrate our love is by letting go. Run and play at the RB, Katie. You are still loved.

Blessings,
Mary

catmandu
10-17-2005, 08:41 AM
Katie is starting her first full week,as a full fledged Pet Talker Angel.
This week,they are touring Oslo,Norway,and enjoying the hospitality,of the Norweigan Cats!
And having a Wonderul time.
She will tell you about her adventures,when you meet again.
One Fine Day.

Tubby & Peanut's Mom
10-17-2005, 09:21 AM
What a beautiful tribute to a very beautiful and special Katie girl. :(

{{{hugs}}}

rg_girlca
10-17-2005, 12:59 PM
I want to thank each and everyone of you for being here for me in my time of sorrow. It has helped knowing that you all know what I have been going through and have shared my pain and tears. I swear I felt all your hugs that came my way which was such a comfort to me.

My Katie, Katie Pretty Lady was my special girl and I am still trying to come to terms with what happened to her. Time will heal, the anger, the pain of loosing her sooner than expected and the tears, that still come on a daily basis.

Rest in Peace my Katie girl, til we meet again.

Donnaj4962
10-17-2005, 05:12 PM
Your tribute to your little Katie is just beautiful! I can only imagine how your heart must be breaking and how you must miss her. Sje is playing hard at the RB bridge, and watching down on you. Please always keep the faith that you will be with her once again one day. Lots of hugs and kisses to you and your Katie Katie, pretty lady!

Vermontcat
10-17-2005, 09:48 PM
I'm so sorry that I haven't been on Pet Talk much lately and didn't hear about Katie until now.
She was a very special kitty and you had 14 wonderful years together.
I'm so sorry that she is no longer with you. :(
Hugs to you.

jazzcat
10-18-2005, 11:03 AM
What a beautiful tribute to sweet Katie. I know you miss her so very much.

I hope each day will help ease the pain of your loss.

(((HUGS)))

elizabethann
10-18-2005, 12:14 PM
What a beautiful memorial. Katie was lucky to have you as her family.

RIP Katie.

AmberLee
10-18-2005, 12:16 PM
What a wonderful tribute to a special girl.

Frolic well, Katie Katie Pretty Lady!

ramanth
10-18-2005, 12:29 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. :( :(

Sonia59
10-19-2005, 05:57 AM
What a beautiful tribute to your pretty girl. I am in tears but I know she had the best life she could have had. Rest in peace, Katie pretty Lady.

Hugs

animal_rescue
10-19-2005, 05:12 PM
I'm so sorry! :(

kimlovescats
10-23-2005, 11:45 PM
I am just now getting back to PT after a long absence ... I am so sorry and shocked to hear this very sad news.

Rest in Peace, sweet Katie!
:(

rg_girlca
10-24-2005, 07:23 PM
Thank you all for your sincere sympathies for my Katie girl.

Van10
10-26-2005, 12:01 PM
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. :( :(
Rest in peace and watch over your meowmie little one.

treybabe
10-28-2005, 06:11 PM
Thanks so much for sharing about Katie and how you got her and how it was towards the last.

Such love you both share for one another.

I am moved as I remember my precious kitties who are gone now but so well remembered. The love just never leaves.

I still have four and one is a big time head bumper.... :)

hugs from treybabe.

Uabassoon
10-28-2005, 07:14 PM
I'm sorry that it's taken me so long to respond.

I'm so sorry about everything that happened. Katie was such a very special cat and she will be missed by so many people that loved her.

rosethecopycat
10-30-2005, 08:37 PM
Katie, watch over your mama now, give her whisker kisses at night, so she knows you are there.

Godspeed to the Bridge, Katie

.sarah
10-31-2005, 01:33 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. That story was beautiful.

Kirbys Mom
10-31-2005, 02:02 PM
that is so sad, im fightin the tears since i dont want to cry at school. my heart goes out to you, i haven't been much of a cat person since my dad is allergic but i hope you can pull through best of luck!

Laura's Babies
11-10-2005, 02:51 PM
I searched for this last night but I was so tired that I just completely overlooked it.

I am glad to see you were able to post this so soon after I left for work.. I don't think I could have done it in a week although I know that sharing your grief does help heal.

It was so interesting to hear/read, how you came to have her. I love those stories and that one was very interesting. Sounds like she always knew you belonged together, right from the start, she just had to wait until the time was exactly right to make it home to you! It was a beautiful tribute and I really enjoyed reading her story, except for the ending. BUT, you and she were blessed with 14 beautiful, wonderful years. That little girl KNEW she was loved and so did her Meowmie. You were so blessed to have had her in your life and she having you in hers.

kb2yjx
11-10-2005, 05:11 PM
A lovely tribute to a very special cat! Sleep softly Katie...Sandra

just me
11-22-2005, 09:05 AM
Im so very sorry to hear about Katie.
What a great story and tribute to her.
RIP sweet Katie :(