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  1. #1
    Join Date
    Jun 2002
    North Wales, UK.


    For those who don't know Ebby has a tumour/mass in her chest and is on borrowed time. She is/has been holding her own but now I fear the end is near and those of you, most of you I think, know how hard the 'when' decision is.

    For the last two days I have thought, tomorrow I will call the vet for to come out the day after, but I've yet to do so. Each morning, each afternoon, she is there waiting for her food and relishing it. Each morning & evening she jumps on my bed as usual waiting for her due attention (not forgetting her evening piece of cheese). She won't come in the living room now, mostly because of the dog, and spends most of her time in her comfy bed under my bed, those big eyes peeking out at me when I go in there... unless the sun shines in which case she will get on my bed to sunbathe. The bad part is that she cannot walk as well as she should and her breathing is slowly getting worse. Her breathing is the worry because if/when it gets too laboured ... well, I don't have to spell it out.

    I'm sharing this with you here on Pet Talk because the December, nearly 11 years ago, when I got her was not long after I became a member. (Sorry the picture has gone, I'll try and find it) and sharing her last days with the people who knew of her and cared seems appropriate.

    I will update.

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Dec 2003
    Land of the Ducks...quack!

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Litter Box, Greenville, SC
    HugZ to both of you. I recently experienced this same thing. Hugs again.
    Meowmie to Mr. Spunky, Lady Jane, Bob, Callie, Kimi, and fosters Lucy Lou and HRH Oliver Woodrow von Katz.

    I've been Boo'd ... right off the stage!

    RIP Samwise (Dec 2, 2014), Emily (Oct 8, 2013), Rose (Sept 24, 2001), Maggie (Fall 2003)

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Jun 2000
    Waltham, MA, USA
    Hugs to you, and a mic ear scratch to Ebby! Lots of love to both of you in this hard time!
    I've Been Frosted

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Ann Arbor, Michigan, USA
    Hugs and purrs to you and Ebby. Also, prayers and good wishes and loving warm energies.

    Last edited by phesina; 10-28-2013 at 05:47 AM.
    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
    CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.

    -- Terry Pratchett (1948—2015), Sourcery

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Hugs to you and sweet Ebby - thank you for sharing your little with us and for taking such great care of her these 11 years.
    Yours in Whiskers

    I'm not young enough to know everything.

    "The Best Mirror is an Old Friend"

    “The secret of what is small is the secret of clear-sightedness; the guarding of what is soft and tender is the secret of strength.”

    • Lao Tzu

  7. #7
    Join Date
    Aug 2008
    Los Angeles, Ca
    Those of us who have been there know how difficult the "when" decision can be. You will know "when", though. The pain of keeping them alive will be worse than the pain of letting them go. It will still hurt like heck, though. Sending you and Ebby good thoughts and prayers.
    Proud to be a crazy cat lady!


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