The story is too long to type out & I don't know everything either, but ask questions before assuming & I'll do my darnest to answer them.
My childhood friend popped online & I got some scary & sad info from him...very heart breaking
The love of his life has met hher breaking point. She had a horrid past & since the beginning of the year she has started going batty.
My friend is doing everything in his power to help her. Right now he has her 2 kids, their puppy & himself at his friends place.
She has beaten on him many times & hurt herself as well... SHE DOES NOT realize shes doing all this, shes not in the ssame world as us anymore... Shes not abusive, or a b!tch, shes 100% sick.
He fears his help isn't enough fast enough. He took her to the psyc ward & they refused to take her, but gave her pills, that she hates (I'm assuming shes not taking them, or not like she should be).
I haven't been close friends with Chance in MANY years, as I went to college & moved away (6yrs ago).. But I've known him since he was 3yrs old & I was 5yrs old... I still consider him a great friend & I'll still do anything for him. I have popped by to see him, but I don't know him overly well, as 6yrs is a long time.
Hes very good with words & thats what scared me!
I fear hes going to loose his mind & hurt himself, esp. if she kills herself.
I told him hes more then welcomed to come to my house & stay with me, for as long as he needs to. I'll leave in the middle of the night, in teh middle of work, anytime to go get him.
I was always with him when he was young, so I can kinda read his thoughts & I know what he capable of, & hurting himself is deffently something he would so. He would NEVER EVER hurt anyone else, esp. me. I've always picked him up off the floor & held him. Everytime hes gone nuts, I was there for him with arms open. SO he knows I'm not kidding when I said I'll get him & will bring him to my home.
What the problem is, is what do I do with him if he needs to stay, weeks or longer? I would LOVE having him over all the time again, but I want to help him get his crazy mind off of her in a healthy way.. NOT split them up, but keep him sane & healthy.
I'm not worried about money, he has money to help out. Its his mind & body I'm worried about.
Any tips on how to be the best friend I can be, please toss everything at me. You have no idea how much he means to me. Hes almost like family.
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