EVERYTHING SHE SAID!!!Originally posted by Cataholic
Oh, I think you guys took that last comment kind of not how I meant it...
I was raised correctly. I have table manners, am professional, classy, don't wear white after labor day, can identify most crystal, know how to set a table, blah, blah, blah. But, I don't see myself as somehow lacking because I talk on a cell phone all day long, everywhere. I am not a loud person, so, maybe my cellphone talking is less 'offensive' then some others? But, I just don't get it at all.
I can't really see talking on a cell phone while waiting in a doctor's office (though I AM one of THOSE people that thinks my time is just as valuable as the doctor's and calls ahead for the wait time), nor, do I see talking on a phone in church (? do people really do that?), and I laugh at the gym people that do it...JUST like I laugh at the gym people that stand around and talk-real time real place- as it is just such a waste of time to be in a gym and do nothing. But, sitting outside Starbucks waiting on someone? At the grocery? Heck yeah...I put the phone into my pocketbook when I ring out, just as i would stop talking to my friend.
I really think it is the WAY people talk on cell phones (or as a group of people talking really loud in a restaurant, or walking five abreast, or drive the car with the music so loud, or the ,etc.).
I just don't see the issue with cell phones.
Now, I am off to write some thank you notes for some gifts less someone think I wasn't brought up correctly????
I'm a cell phoner. Never in movies, never in church, etc. I, too, can set a table, hold my soup spoon correctly, tie a bow tie, and diagram a sentence. My handshake is firm and my eye contact is good.
And, when I'm on a business trip and I'm sitting in a restaurant alone, instead of talking to the person across the table from me, I choose to talk to the person on the other end of the phone. What's the big? I'm never louder than normal conversation voice, and I'm very courteous to other's "space." i'm sorry if some of you all have had bad experiences with cell phones, but I promise they aren't evil.
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