Horrible Tragedy in Blacksburg, VA (VA Tech)

[Pam]

I wonder how his parents are, among all the others? They are innocents who have also lost.

I have thought of his parents several times through all of this. How will they ever go on? They have suffered tremendous shame as well as loss. I wasn't aware until I saw on TV yesterday that they were not able to be advised of the school's concerns regarding his writings, etc. because of *confidentiality.* I feel that is something that must be changed. Maybe they could have helped.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I wonder how his parents are, among all the others? They are innocents who have also lost.

Prayers to all.

I hope they are not forgotten in people's prayers

[wombat2u2004]

Good on ya Ceph, for hanging in there, and sending us all those wonderful pics.
Wom

[K9soul]

Thank you for the photos and your writings that truly show the beauty of the indomitable human spirit.

Countrywolf, your friend and the victim's family will also be in my prayers.

All remain in my thoughts and prayers.

There are over 2500 candles from 46 countries lit right now for the students and families of Vtech here: http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...l=eng&gi=VTech

[cassiesmom]

I wonder how his parents are, among all the others? They are innocents who have also lost. Prayers to all.

I do too, Catty1. I saw on Anderson Cooper's show last night that some of the writing he had done for his course work rattled his professor so much that she showed it to the University police. They could not do anything about it because no direct threats were made. They also couldn't show it to the health service because of confidentiality. Anderson Cooper was saying that these events may focus national attention on issues of gun control again. But I hope something is done to protect potential victims when it's identified that there is risk of a crime, or a person is having serious mental health issues that jeopardize people's safety (that person's or others). At some point the safety of others comes up against an individual's right to privacy and that's not an easy place to be.

[DrKym]

In Florida they have something called the Baker Act, if a person is deemed by a family member, teacher ,clergy, friend etc. To pose a threat to themselves or others they can be involuntarily committed for 72 hours while Mental health proffessionals from several fields attempt to assess the risk and if it is actual or simply being faked for whatever reason.

I know there are a few other states that have similar Acts, it is time we have that availability in all states.

And before anyone goes off on a phone call can lock up your annoying little brother etc. You do have to provide clear and cincise statements, that would make a reasonable person fear for their health and/or safety or that of the person in question.

[Alysser]

I just ordered a VA tech sweatshirt, to show support. I think everyone around America should to show support for those who were lost in this tragic fit of rage.

[cassiesmom]

I heard on the news today that funeral services have begun to be held for the Virginia Tech victims. That must be so difficult for their families.